Greetings, all!!! I've had several inquiries about Al recently, so figured I should send out a new update. Forgot to let you 'newbies' (who weren't on the list for Al's bypass in 2000) that "no news is good news" or at least, as Mark says "no news is no news!!!"
Al is continuing to improve. Best update news is that most days are good days, and the bad days aren't as bad. Next best (in my opinion) is that the hair under Al's chin is growing back in, and his beard looks ALMOST normal (just a little longer, then a good trim from looking normal). In fact, he went out north and helped a pal close his pool on Sunday; fixed Len's carpet shampooer over the weekend, and shampooed most of the house on Monday. Then basically collapsed into bed last night and didn't get up til noon today!!! This encourages me, as he's taking on some bigger projects than reloading the dishwasher and laundry. He's a little concerned yet about a building project on the horizon, but I reminded him how well the porch project went at Lucille's house a few weeks ago. 'Course, he was well supervised with a talented architect on the project.
And any of us who knows him would not be surprised to know he overdoes it a bit, then crashes. Some day, SOME DAY, he'll learn to pace himself. =)
Of concern is his ongoing, periodic, horrendous (IMHO) cough. Need to thank Mom, Rita and Shelley for not running out of the restaurant recently when he had a coughing jag in the middle of lunch. I've gotten pretty used to them (except in the middle of the night!), but they can be really disconcerting to strangers. We did get the other drug for his nebulizer (instead of Albuterol, which messed with his heartbeat), and it helps him overall, but doesn't seem to stop the cough. He's actually been using the prescription cough syrup, with mixed results. I fear this is just one of those things we'll have to wait out, and hopefully it will pass soon. Doesn't seem to be much we can do about it anyway, so will keep trying suggestions, and hopefully it'll go away soon.
His voice still seems iffy to me, but people who haven't seen him in a few weeks are WAY impressed with how good he sounds. It's FAR more consistent than when I sent my last update. Better in person than on the phone, I'd have to say. It just takes more effort to speak than it used to.
Next up will be a CT scan and bronchoscopy on November 2. I should know SOMETHING that morning, so will expect to send a new update later in the day. We follow-up with Dr. Beck (oncologist) on Monday, November 7. Hopefully all the news will be good, with the tumor smaller or GONE, and he can start working at least part time again. He's going to go stir crazy if he stays home alone much longer, though I hate to give up my homemaker husband.
Jeannie, Al shared your e-mail with me. Please know you can call on us at any time -- even if it's just for a supportive hug. I don't know which hospital you're at, or what your mom's name or room number is, so drop me a note and I'll check in with you. I understand where you are right now, as my father passed a number of years ago following a massive stroke. Nothing can make it easier, but know we're here for you, and only a phone call away. (Remember, I work just across the street from SRHCl!) And I highly recommend e-mail updates; they're much less exhausting than 15 calls a day!!! =)
Connie and JR, your surprise visit recently was SO much fun!!! Feel free to drop in on us any time!!!
I'm going to get on to other projects now, but not before I thank you all for your ongoing thoughts and prayers. Please continue to keep us close to your hearts, as we still have this fight on our hands.
xoxoxo
Sharon
P.S. Oh yeah, I know some of you will ask. I'm doing fine. I have my emotional, teary moments (days), but overall, just keep on going to work, plugging away and juggling the finances. Having a creative outlet really helps, and working in the garden recently has been very calming. Plenty of hugs from the big guy don't hurt, either. Now if it'll just warm up for a couple more weekends, so I can put the garden to bed!!!
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